Soccer
has had a strong influence on my life since I was six years old. My parents
wanted me to play a sport so they had signed me up for a Sting Rays camp in the
summer. I happened to be one of the older kids there and I was better because I
was more coordinated (but I was oblivious to that reason at the time). This was
the first thing I knew I was good at, so I kept with it.
I
grew up in Cranston, RI and the town has an organization called CLCF
(Cranston’s League for Cranston’s Future) that organizes recreational sports
for kids. I played my first season in the fall of second grade. This was very
important to me because I had just moved to Cranston from Warwick and this gave
the opportunity to make new friends. It turned out that most of the kids in the
CLCF program went to my elementary school instead of Stone Hill or Garden City.
I was very happy to work on some friendships.
The first season
was great. The team was very close even though we lost all 12 of our games. Our
coach kept pushing us to win but halfway through he didn’t mind anymore because
we were still having a lot of fun. I don’t remember ever being part of a team
that was not fun to be part of. I played both the fall and spring seasons until
I was 12. Through those years I gained skill in ball control, shooting,
passing, and understanding the game. My position was always central defense or
defensive midfield because I was very possessive of my side of the field. The
other team was not allowed to be there or to have the ball when I played and
that tenacity was beloved by every one of my coaches.
My best season was
fall of seventh grade. I had gotten so good that a reporter from the Cranston
Herald used to interview me after games (I had no idea the town had such
interest in recreational sports!). One game, I had more saves than my goalie,
who was a substitute to be fair.
The following
season changed my life forever. I suffered a dislocated kneecap and year later
discovered a ligament was torn, including part of my meniscus. I spent almost
two years in rehab but I couldn’t outfight my growing body. In my desire to
play again, I tried to play twice, but suffered the same result. I turned to
refereeing games, which was enjoyable, but not the same. Since then, and
currently now, I am overcompensating my love to play the game by studying it. I
can name every team in the top divisions of England, Germany, and Spain and
Italy on a good day. I know most of the players and formations, and have a
fairly firm grasp on tactics. I have even developed a belief on how I would
coach a team and what playing style I would prefer to use, since it really is
just a preference most of the time.
Now, as a teacher
candidate, I realize that my teachers may not have known this about me, but
that this knowledge would benefit them in their teaching. If nothing else, my
teachers could have had a stronger relationship with me that may have caused me
to work harder in school. I struggled with motivating myself to do work because
I didn’t see the point in it. Most often, teachers would give up trying to get
me to do my homework and get mad or send me out of the room, which actually
makes things worse.
If I were a
teacher, I would want to know what out of school activity a student likes most
so that I can strengthen that relationship. I believe that a strong
relationship between student and teacher includes respect which can motivate
students to do work. There were a few teachers that I respected and I made sure
to do my work in their class because if I didn’t, I got that look of
disappointment that I hate, so I made sure to do the next assignment really
well. This respect also contributes to creating a community and a safe
environment. The teacher should seem human to the students without any need of
investigation. And yes, they may need to share a few minor personal details,
such as their favorite sport or pet, to help the students realize this. Knowing
what students like can open the door for differentiation. In the case of
soccer, on field formations can be used to explain some 3-D visualizations of
chemical reactions and other concepts (like how water dissolving salt is like
defenders swarming an opposing ball carrier) that are difficult to imagine.
Knowing your
students is fundamental to differentiating instruction, and to having a safe
community for individuals to learn in. Between now and student teaching, I hope
to gain more knowledge on how to best learn my students and then how do I
really use that knowledge to improve my students’ learning.
Nick,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed your post about soccer. It is really nice when you can connect with someone about who appreciates sports as much as you do. You started playing soccer around the time I started playing softball. To stick with something so long, you must really enjoy it!
In an unfortunate way, I can also relate to the injury. Although mine didn't stop me from playing the sport I love, it set me back a bit. I also suffered from a knee injury my sophomore year. I had surgery in December to fix a torn meniscus and made sure I was able to play (squatting and all- as a catcher) towards the beginning of March! It was tough and painful, but nothing could keep me off the field. It was obvious that you did all you could as well to stay committed to your sport by becoming a referee. Kudos to you!
I like that you want to get to know your students at a personal level. I think it is important to know what your students are interested in, what is going on in their lives (etc.) It really shows that you care about your students and you enjoy listening to them! I hope to do the same.